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Teaching Men How to Create Better Opportunities

Discover Your Opportunity Blockers Here:


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I'm Kevin Bergen. I help men through the transition from feeling unappreciated, misunderstood, disrespected, and powerless to feeling recognized, heard, respected, and empowered. My clients don't have to settle for lives they don't love. I'm a licensed psychotherapist and men's coach, and I know first hand how good life can be. I offer tools to men so they can get the same satisfaction. 

You're never too old to learn new things or make big changes. For example, in my late 30s, I decided to completely change careers. I went to grad school, got my license, and opened a therapy practice where I observed that many men were seeking strategies and steps rather than therapy. I created coaching programs to more adequately meet their needs.


I've been happily married for 34 years. My wife and I have four grown daughters (and two granddaughters so far).

Courageous Decisions Coaching is a program for men who struggle with any of the following:

  • compulsive sexual behavior and its negative consequences

  • difficulty communicating in important relationships

  • loss of motivation due to frequent disappointment

  • settling for less than he knows he can have


Our program members are committed to replacing their old lifestyle that produced shame, guilt, and fear with new behaviors that result in self-acceptance, integrity, and peace of mind.

If you could wave a magic wand, what changes would you make in your life? What would you want in your close relationships? What would you want in your career? How would you want your days to be different? How would you like to show up? Would you find more intimacy and satisfaction with those you love? Would you take your own career dreams more seriously? Would you take more time for the things you enjoy? Would you like to be a man with nothing to hide?

Men in situations like yours have a few options: you can keep on going the way you already have knowing that the risks of negative outcomes increase all the time. You can give in to your temptations and seek release in ways that will ultimately be harmful. You can try to figure this all out for yourself which will likely lead to more frustration and painful failure. Or you can reach out for help.

Courageous Decisions Coaching will build a uniquely-tailored solution that will help you leave destructive decisions behind and move into the life you've always wanted. The benefits of our coaching programs include improved communication, greater self-confidence, healthier stress management, increased trustworthiness, and more optimism about life in general.

You will be treated with the utmost respect, and we guard your privacy with care and confidentiality. We provide an environment where it's safe to discuss difficult and sometimes awkward topics. Our programs are available in both group and individual formats, and our members benefit uniquely from both.

Coaching helps you identify solutions and achieve goals, improve your relationships and create better opportunities than you've ever imagined.


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